If you are grieving over an animal that is sick, one that is dying, or one that has died, YOU ARE NOT ALONE. Pets are more than just animals. Many consider their pets to be a beloved friend, companion, and family member. We love our animals so much, and it's so hard to let them go. The loss of any beloved pet has a drastic impact on our lives and is a devastating blow for pet owners.
Whether you are anticipating the death of your pet or whether your pet has died, understanding how you grieve and finding ways to cope with your loss can bring you closer to the day when memories bring smiles instead of tears.
How do I grieve? Who can I talk to?
If your family or friends love pets, they'll understand what you're going through. Don't hide your feelings in a misguided effort to appear strong and calm! Working through your feelings with another person is one of the best ways to put them in perspective and find ways to handle them. Find someone you can talk to about how much your pet meant to you and how much you miss it - someone you feel comfortable crying and grieving with.
If you don't have family or friends who understand, or if you need more help, it’s important to seek out the additional support needed to help you grieve. Grieve with someone who understands and cares about what you're going through. Remember, your grief is genuine and deserving of support.
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